i need a way to receive the contents of a filled out form to my email::
<FORM METHOD="POST" ACTION="mailto:my@mail" ENCTYPE="multipart/form-data">
^^ thats the code I was using, but I realise that sending the form thru outlook express (mailto: opens it), its very inconvient + mailto: isnt exactly the best way to get soemthing done..

its there an alternative?

The best way is to sign up somewhere for an email form. For example, www.bravenet.com