I've searched high and low and I can find the interactive music players (you know, you upload all your own music and it plays and people can skip to a different song or just stop the music) in all sorts of designs, just not the ipod design and I know I've seen them on people's pages before I just can't remember where.

So if anyone can help me get that with the code that would be fab!

like this? http://www.loudfusion.com/flash/player4/

go to
http://www.loudfusion.com/music.php?action=view_managed

yes it's something like that but looks like an actual ipod!