Can someone help me with this border problem?

Friends: Why are there so many borders? How can I fix this?
I don't want a border around each individual friend. I don't like the double border around the whole thing, and the extra box sticking out on the top. I just want one border around the entire friend section.
http://i1.tinypic.com/op8ls9.jpg

Comments: TOO MANY BORDERS! I just want one around the entire comment section.
http://i1.tinypic.com/op8njq.jpg

Could you paste the code for it.

<style> table table table {border: 1px solid; border-color: FFFFFF;} </syle>

This is the code that I used to add borders. If you need my entire code for everything, let me know, but it's long and I'd rather not post it.

Here are some new more detailed screen shots of my problem. Everything with a red x, I want gone.

http://i2.tinypic.com/ot2bg5.jpg
http://i2.tinypic.com/ot2blj.jpg

http://i2.tinypic.com/ot2btw.jpg - This is my About Me/Who I'd like to meet section. Why does it have a double border. I really don't want that. I also don't know what that extra box is hiding behind it. I circled the areas in the screenshot.

<style> table table table {border: 1px solid; border-color: FFFFFF;} </syle>

try:
<style type="text/css">
<!--
table { border: #FFFFFF 1px solid; }
-->
</style>

That took away all borders...

Do I need to post my entire code? I don't really want to do that, but I really want this fixed. It looks terrible.