How do i color my frames border? i tried reading the lissa tutorial but it didnt help i still dont get it

style="border: 1 solid #ffffff"

Add that after the word "Iframe" in your tag. Replace what is in color.
If you don't want the ugly grey frameborder just add:
FRAMEBORDER="0"

i dont have i-frames i have regular frames this is my code

<FRAMESET ROWS="30%,70%">
<FRAME SRC="top.html" NAME="top" "scrolling=no">
<FRAMESET COLS="20%,60%,20%">
<FRAME SRC="left.html" NAME="left" "scrolling=yes">
<FRAME SRC="right.html" NAME="right" "scrolling=yes">
<FRAME SRC="comingsoon.html" NAME="rightside" "scrolling=no">
</FRAMESET>

how do i color my frames bordes with the color FFCCFF

Oh I have Iframes on the brain my mistake.
right now try that style tag, but I think you cant put a color then again I'm not sure. But, do try that style tag

nope, it doesnt work :(

Example:

<frame src="right.html" name="right" style="border: 5 solid #000000">