http://www.geocities.com/jefferyhadabarmitzvah/photos/photosmain.html this is the site.. and what i want is solid white borders around certain parts of each frame.. but i cant get rid of the default grey shadowing. does anyone know how to make the border between frames solid white?

You can add border=0 frameborder=0 framespacing=0

For example: <FRAMESET ROWS="20,80" border=0 frameborder=0 framespacing=0>

That will get rid of the borders completly, then you can use

<frame src="link.html" name="frame name" style="border: 5 solid #ffffff">

That will give you a white border.

thanks!! it worked out perfectly!