does anyone know how to load a layout to your page? cuz i'm trying to load a layout for my page and i dont know how to do it

Do you mean upload?

It depends what you use to make your site. You can either FTP your layout to your webspace or you can use a file manager.

whats a FTP and PHP what else is there..whats CSS or what ever its called what does all those mean anyway..

FTP:
Basically its just uploading files directly from your computer to your webhost.

PHP:
It can do many things such as talk to databases, create things like guestbooks, forums, form processing, etc...

http://www.php.net

CSS:
Its used to change things like the scrollbar, links, cursor on your site.