has any one seen those custom cursors? i cant find any examples right now, i dont meanthese (http://www.lissaexplains.com/css.shtml)

you'll need a custom cursor and just use the css for cursors :)
cursor: url( "mycursor.cur" );

so get a cursor upload it and put that script in my html code and it will work?

not quite tha'ts not a script :). you need to upload a cursor, add the css to the 'head' tag (or link to a css file) then it'll work.

<style type="text/css">
body {
cursor: url( "mycursor.cur" );
}
</style>