I was wondering how you change the color from grey to a color u want on the drop down box with the arrow on ur dark player?

in the part thats circled below:

http://img260.echo.cx/img260/7739/hbk1copy2xd.jpg

Have you tried changing the scrollbar color yet? You should probably find it on Lissa's CSS (http://www.lissaexplains.com/css.shtml) page. :)

I haven't tried changing the color of the scrollbar on my xanga yet, but my friend has, I can ask him if that doesnt work.

Yes, I changed the scrollbar already to how I wanted it, that doesnt fix the DROPDOWN ARROW! not a scroll bar.

the arrow color cannot be changed.

It has to do with your visual style (if you use the silver Luna theme, your arrow will be silver).