member stuff
how do i do
logins
a message saying yayayay confirm your registration by clicking here
a new place on the screen saying welcome username your last login was blahblah
as well as cookies
and member areas
i know this is really big but ive seen people on this forum who have websites that have done it

ps. as well as a registration form

That's mainly PHP. You may find someone to help you here: http://www.lissaexplains.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=27
Sorry, I don't know much PHP and can't help. Some of those things you can probably do with Javascript. And yeah, it should be pretty complicated.

it's also sql but i would if i were u, get a book from the libray to set one up, i have a book on it but i'm only on chapter 4

which is like page 100 out of 400