can anyone tell me where to get one? i mean the decorative cursors.......
and what free-downloadable-program can i use to make one? i already used digitope pixelshop but it's limited. can anybody suggest a program. thnx.

and what free-downloadable-program can i use to make one?
http://download.com/IconForge/3000-2195_4-10361911.html?tag=lst-0-12
http://download.com/ArtCursors/3000-2317_4-10381000.html?tag=lst-0-24
http://download.com/Microangelo-Creation/3000-2195_4-10388442.html

They're all trials, but should help you temporarily.

can anyone tell me where to get one?

http://nuthinbutnet.net/resources/cursors.aspx

Do a Web search for "free cursors".

thank you so much for your great help! those are just what i'm looking for! thanks again!

Lissa also suggest a free cursor maker here:
http://www.lissaexplains.com/fun9.shtml