Okay i've searched around the forum for the code and this is what i've gotten:

<style type="text/css">
i, em {color="#ffffff";}
</style>

<style type="text/css">
b {color="#ff3399";}
</style>

<style type="text/css">
u {color="#000000";}
</style>
so, i know i'm supposed to put it in my custom header... but everytime i try and put it in there it doesn't work. Is there some like exact place that I should be putting it?! any help is appreciated!

that code's wrong... it shouldn't have equal signs...

now it should work ;)

<style type="text/css">
i, em {color: #ffffff;}
</style>

<style type="text/css">
b {color: #ff3399;}
</style>

<style type="text/css">
u {color: #000000;}
</style>