Hey, I need some advice...I'm having friend problems with my two friends and need some extra opinions... -takes big breath-
Okay so my friend Arielle thinks my other friend Nichole called her a bad name (think woman on the streets) when she really didn't so Arielle blew up at her and called her a spoiled little brat and a lot of other pretty little things...Well Arielle wants me to be on her "side" while I want to be neutral because I like both of them. So naturally I talked to both of them, which made Arielle mad and called me a traitor. So today I was talking to Nichole and Arielle saw, and when Nichole left Arielle said something about me being a dirty traitor, and that really pushed me over the edge because who is she to tell me who I should be friends with? Ne? So I ended up just talking to Nichole instead. But my other friend, whose name is also Nicole worships the ground Arielle walks on and tries to be her best friend or whatever...and she was sorta mad at me for teasing her about her red hair (I dunno...she's weird...it wasn't even mean O_o ) so she told Arielle I was talking to Nichole, which made Arielle even mad at me. So now they're isolating me and talking about me in front of me...what should I do? -takes a big breath and gasps- Sorry if this sounds like a silly little girl problem ^-^;;;

Well first of all you need to tell Arielle to take a chill pill and get over herself. Well not like that but you get the jest of it. It's all a misunderstanding and sounds like Arielle needs to calm down. Yeah she has a right to be mad because someone said that she said something bad about someone else but how long is she going to be mad? Why are you a traitor??
You would think in this whole situation that nichole would be the one that would be mad. How is she? If Arielle were to calm down and get back to "normal" would she be ok with it all?

I would sit arielle down and tell her it's a misunderstanding, Nichole knows that and she should have known better than to think Arielle would have said something like that. (Well if that's the case)

If Arielle keeps is up, she's not worth having as a friend. People change and grow apart sometimes and it hurts but it happens.

That's my 2 cents worth!

Lol, thanks...I'm actually talking to Nichole right now and personally I really don't want to be friends with Arielle anymore...she's such a two-faced person...if you can't tell ^-^;;;

Yeah i can tell. ;)

Um, I hate those situations....:grouch: You should talk to Arielle....tell her that you're sorry but if she wants to choose your friends, then she should probably find another friend. Arielle sounds like she needs to relax (no offence!)

Heh, yeah....she gets mad at me at least 10 times a year...and I hate that >(

I personally think that you should definetly talk to Arielle. I'm guessing that you have already tried telling her that Nichole didn't call her any bad names so maybe try to say that she should calm down and it's only a stupid word and even if she did say she wouldn't mean it. If you guys are really true friends then you wouldn't be calling each bad names.

If talking with her doesn't work do something with Arielle and Nichole to break the ice. Try doing something you all like maybe sooner or later Arielle and Nichole will make up. If that doesn't work just cry out, "You guys are crazy if you are going to act this way just because over a stupid name that Nichole didn't even call you then maybe we shouldn't be friends!" Then walk away and go home, the next day they will feel so bad maybe they will understand.

Lol! The thing is, they're both to darn stubborn...and Arielle's the type of girl who'll just yell at me for even talking to her...I'm begining to think that I should just live my life without Arielle and Nicole....x.x I have known Nichole the longest (about 11-12 years!) and I would never want to break that bond.....gah...