Person: Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Nobody
Person: seriously. Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Seriously. Nobody
Person: You're kidding me right?
Me: No. I don't have a crush on anyone.
Person: (weird look)

Is it that hard to believe that I don't have an attraction to anyone? Sheesh. I've gotten that from so many people, it's not even funny.
I guess you have to have a crush on someone to be normal. :rolleyes:

^There is no such thing as normality. :P Everyones idea of "normal" is completely different from the next persons. Next time someone makes a joke or tells you that you're weird, try saying Your not allowed to do it that way either.OFF! It works well on school bullies. To date, I have shooed away about 40 school bullies with that phrase. :D

^There is no such thing as normality. :P Everyones idea of "normal" is completely different from the next persons. Next time someone makes a joke or tells you that you're weird, try saying Your not allowed to do it that way either. OFF! It works well on school bullies. To date, I have shooed away about 40 school bullies with that phrase. :D That is Funni Queen of the Wise :rofl:

Yeah...my quiet, shy, geeky profile makes me a target for bullying. You'd think that high school Juniors grow out of that, but apparently they don't, so when your like me, you've got to stand up for yourself. :D

Next time they ask, say "I have a crush on every boy!" :P

Person: Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Nobody
Person: seriously. Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Seriously. Nobody
Person: You're kidding me right?
Me: No. I don't have a crush on anyone.
Person: (weird look)

Is it that hard to believe that I don't have an attraction to anyone? Sheesh. I've gotten that from so many people, it's not even funny.
I guess you have to have a crush on someone to be normal. :rolleyes:

Argh! I hate it when that happens. Only they don't stop with the weird look, they pester me for days. :rolleyes:

Oops...sorry Shiela...I didn't know we weren't allowed to use *'s to indicate a bad word. :::is ashamed of self::: :(

If I say I don't have a crush on someone, my friends think that I'm covering up and bug me for days "Who do you like?? Who do you like??" It's like they think everyone has to have someone to like.

I always turn the question around and say, "Who do YOU have a crush on?", or start inquiring why they call it a "crush" because it sounds so wierd...;)

If I say I don't have a crush on someone, my friends think that I'm covering up and bug me for days "Who do you like?? Who do you like??" It's like they think everyone has to have someone to like.
I've gotten that too. Very, very annoying.
Btw, I was being sarcastic when I said "I guess you have to be a crush on someone to be normal" ;)

I will try what you all suggested though. It just might work. :P

Tell them they're the one you have a crush on and spend every night standing outside their bedroom window watching them sleep. Tell them you dug through their trash to rescue a hairbrush they threw away, which you now pet like a cat.

Oops...sorry Shiela...I didn't know we weren't allowed to use *'s to indicate a bad word. :::is ashamed of self::: :(

*Throws hands in the air*. "I knew, I knew!"

Haha, my girl friends would always ask me that, just randomly say "So who do you like?" or "Who do you have a crush on?" Like everyone is supposed to have one or something. I guess that's one reason why I started hanging out with guys, no girl talk. :P

Then of course, I get people come up to a friend and I asking, "Are you two going out?" :rolleyes:

oh... gah... I hate that. Some one is always asking me that.

Hey... who is your crush?

I don't have one...

STOP LYING!

I'm not!

it makes me so mad... lol

What's even better is when you're single, and people feel sorry for you because of it. :P Then they want to introduce you to all their single friends and you're like, no, I don't want a relationship, and they don't get it...

not having a crush for once in your life isnt weird. my friends think its totally weird when i DONT have a crush, also. but i dont blame them, they're used to me having a crush because i talk about them everyday :hehe:. i usually crush on cute celebrities, coz im not atracted to any of the boys at my school whatsoever lol :rolleyes:

I don't have a crush on anyone either. And ack! The people pester me about it, and after I say "no" a couple million (about there, lol) times, they start saying. "So, you like ______?" and etc. and etc. I learned to ignore them. Either that, or I say that I have a crush on someone in a comic book. (they usually think I'm sooo weird that they stop trying to ask) But what... is "weird"?

Even if I DID have a crush on someone at school, do you think I'd tell my gossiping friends? Noooooooo. I just tell them some celebrity if anyone asks. One of my friends in particular is always asking me "who do you like?"
What really annoys me is when people think you're 'not like other girls' if you don't like anyone. GRrrrrr

People don't ask me who I have a crush on anymore. At least, not since I revealed I had a crush on a rather cute guy at school (Better yet, said crush was returned! Woot!)

lol. i have trust issues, so when i do have a crush(and thats like once every 3 years), i dont tell anybody. Im such a moron.

lol. i have trust issues, so when i do have a crush(and thats like once every 3 years), i dont tell anybody. Im such a moron.
Mine usually last about that long, so I'll bump into someone I haven't spoken to in a year and they'd be like, "so, do you still like so-and-so?" and I will. ::hangs head::

Don't know why people assume that everyone goes around being incrushed all the time. I haven't had a crush on anyone since I had one on one of the nurses back when I was 11. I am inlove now :P totally different

Haha, my girl friends would always ask me that, just randomly say "So who do you like?" or "Who do you have a crush on?" Like everyone is supposed to have one or something. I guess that's one reason why I started hanging out with guys, no girl talk. :P

Then of course, I get people come up to a friend and I asking, "Are you two going out?" :rolleyes:

that is 100% true

i have my random infatuations here and there but i don't tell people and i dont ask people who they like anymore....

the people who do aren't very smart...so you ask them, and they say that like the same person you like...as a good friend you can never make anything happen between you and that person unless your friend doesnt like them anymore or without your friends consent and even then your friend will say yea you can, but it will be killing them inside that the guy they like likes you and not them...and if you don't ask for their consent and more than one people knew about your friend liking whoever....then you get treated as the "bad guy" I've seen it happen so many times....and no one learns from it :S

i currently dont have a crush because of my friends. my friends are the worse, theres this guy who likes me and i dont really like him back cuz he's like a bad influence on me. so they keep trying to ask me do u like him do you? and i usually blush when i get into tough situations and i did blush when they kept bringing it up cuz they were pressuring me. and if i had ever told them i liked someone, every time im with them and we see "him" they would be like poking me and giggling.

I had this guy like me this past year, and everyone would tease me about it. I'm like, okay, he likes me, not the other way around. And then my mom found out (Not my fault he traveled 1.5 hours just to bring me lunch) and she's like, "so, what's he like?" etc etc. I'm like, he's a nice guy. :P

He also wouldn't leave me alone, which made it even more unappealing. :rolleyes:

I had this guy like me this past year, and everyone would tease me about it. I'm like, okay, he likes me, not the other way around. And then my mom found out (Not my fault he traveled 1.5 hours just to bring me lunch) and she's like, "so, what's he like?" etc etc. I'm like, he's a nice guy. :P

He also wouldn't leave me alone, which made it even more unappealing. :rolleyes:

stalker? lol j/k i hated when moms are like that

I have never had a crush, and I don't know many people who have them now. But I don't go around asking people if they have them or not. :lolol:

I have never had a crush
NEVER???? :| not even when you when you were like 5 and one of your guy friends gave you a cookie/candy or something....and you thought they were so great....

NEVER???? :| not even when you when you were like 5 and one of your guy friends gave you a cookie/candy or something....and you thought they were so great....

i dont think tats possible either, thats crazy, that's madness or maybe not im just making it a big deal =D

i don't think you can 'never' have a crush... maybe you didn't thought it was a crush but it was or something... or not :P (my opinion! not to offend anyone ;) )

You guys get crazy of being asked of 'having a crush' all times... well i get crazy of NOT being asked of that. Nobody ever asks "so how is your love life? have you got a date allready?" no why would they ask someone that they allready KNOW about that wouldn't get a boyfriend that easily. That bugs me, my cousin is always getting that attention of it ... yeah sure she is pretty (according to guys, guess my taste is a bit different :P)

ok i have to correct that, on MSN they do ask... but those are 'letters' they don't really mean that much. I mean like family, relatives etc.

I do hate it when on msn guys come like this:

guy: hi
me: hi
guy: are you single?
me: yes
guy: how can that be?
me: i'm just single...
guy: i don't get it, you can't be single
me: well it's shocking, but yes i am!
guy: don't you want a boyfriend?
me: i'm just single!!!
guy: ok ok

they don't know my background on that, they only see my face from my avatar on that. Nowdays it seems like it is so shocking to be 'single'. I don't want to date shortly with a guy here and there. I'm not in for that i guess.. i want someone that really cares about me and not about the 'quick date' haha

Love,
Mirna

I think I am capable of remembering whether or not I have had a crush on anyone, and I have never have. The only person I have ever been attrached to is my boyfriend, and did have a crush on him. :rolleyes: Not everyone has crushed, there are people who go threw their whole life without being attached, in any way, to another person.

they don't know my background on that, they only see my face from my avatar on that. Nowdays it seems like it is so shocking to be 'single'. I don't want to date shortly with a guy here and there. I'm not in for that i guess.. i want someone that really cares about me and not about the 'quick date' haha

Love,
Mirna

I agree!! maybe tats why i wouldnt want a relationship in high school or in middle bcuz ive seen people who would be like "i love you" but its like sometimes they say it without really knowing if they really love the person. All of them always end up breaking up and ive seen tears and sobbing.

I think I am capable of remembering whether or not I have had a crush on anyone, and I have never have. The only person I have ever been attrached to is my boyfriend, and did have a crush on him. :rolleyes: Not everyone has crushed, there are people who go threw their whole life without being attached, in any way, to another person.

so that's one ;) it is a crush! haha

i just think everybody atleast has got one crush, weather it was when you where 3 or 20, sometimes not so obvious but i do think everybody will have a crush once. That doesn't mean that i say that you should have a crush all times! nope, it can be over within days and then never have one again...

:rolleyes: No it's not I didn't don't never had a crush on my boyfriend. Maybe some people don't understand the meaning of the word crush.

to smash. that's what crush means. i had it bad--i was in a boy-crazy girl scout troop, and the girls would swap boycrushes! so i just lied and said i had a crush on the same guy from 3-6th grade. i think they knew i was lying tho. i tend to obsess over my crushes. after a while, i begin not to care who knows...i sometimes WANT them to find out....and i am waiting for that special someone. i don't like the word crush. obsession, mebbe, infatuation. mua, people are dumb noda...

I don't crush on anyone, nor do I want to. Guys keep me from doing my things...things that I really want to do, like travel the world...

Try tttooo cccaaaattttcccchhhh mmmmmmmmmeeeeeee!!!!!!!

:rolleyes: No it's not I didn't don't never had a crush on my boyfriend. Maybe some people don't understand the meaning of the word crush.

or you should make up your mind :) apperently i have done something wrong to you or whatever but for real i'm just having a convo here and you shouldn't take it to serious :)

The only thing I should do is remember to put words into sentences. I meant to say The only person I have ever been attrached to is my boyfriend, and did not have a crush on him.

wow never had a crush? well hmmmm... im trying to think of my crushes, i've had quite a few but lately i haven't really had any, i mean yah there's always gonna be that one or two guys that i think are hot, but that's about it laitly. i don't know, i guess my mind hasn't been on boys/guys laitly, besides my male friends. plus i've found that being single isn't all that bad, i don't mean like if the perfect guy comes around that i'll say no because i enjoy being single, i just mean that some peeps dread being single, and i don't see to many things wrong with being single, unless if ur like going through an emotional period in your life and you just need someone to lean on. But then again everyone has there own opinion so i guess you just gotta see the ups and down about dateing or being single. have fun kids! and have a lovely day!
:idea: <he's there for no reason i just thought he was cute, lol!

I've never had a "real" crush on anyone.. just the random "Ooh he's hot!" at the site of some male character who I find good-looking. :P

i have a crush on this kid who likes me. i'm to mean though.

I haven't had a crush on anybody for a long time. *sigh* Maybe I should lower my standards but it's really just a waste of time. It's not like I'd ever have the courage to say anything but it would liven up conversations. None of my friends have crushes. We have NOTHING to gossip about. NOTHING. I read teen magazines and it seems like everybody is supposed to be flirting and getting asked out. Never happened to me. *Sigh* Sweet sixteen and never been kissed... Excuse me while I go ponder the point of my existence.

maybe i will have a "crush" on someone once i find a guy who is.. nice, attractive, not an idiot, and shares the same taste in music as me. i think the last one is the most important/toughest to find, though :P

EDIT: but, i have liked some people before of course. just not at the moment. my school is deprived of guys that fulfill my standards. or any [decent] standards for that matter :hehe:

Hey if you find a guy who's nice, attractive, and not an idiot, I don't think you'd care what music he listens to... you can always convert him, anyway :P

when i was in middle school i had a crush on my next door neighbor... i took it to extremes tho... i had never even talked to him and he was SO FINE OMG (not being sarcastic) and i got all worked up over that... i used to cry when i would see him with another girl and various other silly things like that... i mean it was just pathetic... how can someone get so crazy over someone they've never met? especially with actors and musicians and stuff? i look back and i think how stupid i must have acted... LOL!

Hey if you find a guy who's nice, attractive, and not an idiot, I don't think you'd care what music he listens to... you can always convert him, anyway :P
hahah that's true. it's tough enough to find a guy that fits in the other categories. and i have already converted my sister so that shouldn't be too tough ;)

i call it musical "re-education". so far i've taught her led zeppelin, pink floyd, jimi hendrix, black sabbath, and more.. i also taught her to like/appreciate smashing pumpkins but that's in a different catagory :P

Hey if you find a guy who's nice, attractive, and not an idiot, I don't think you'd care what music he listens to... you can always convert him, anyway :P
grr... i am STILL trying to convert my husband... he listens to hard core punk rock and i HATE it... i would rather listen to trance or something like that and he hates that!

when i was in middle school i had a crush on my next door neighbor... i took it to extremes tho... i had never even talked to him and he was SO FINE OMG (not being sarcastic) and i got all worked up over that... i used to cry when i would see him with another girl and various other silly things like that... i mean it was just pathetic... how can someone get so crazy over someone they've never met? especially with actors and musicians and stuff? i look back and i think how stupid i must have acted... LOL!
I don't know why, but that reminds me of my first indications that I like someone - I won't be able to look at him :P

It's so stupid and doesn't really make any sense, but it's that whole "oh no, he probably thinks I'm staring at him" when I'm sure he didn't realize I was looking in his direction at all, and when I talk to him I get fidgety and look around to prevent myself from looking directly at him.

It's a bad habit I have to break :P

I used have a crush like that... overly pathetic... man did I like this guy. He had all the same intrests as me... ALL of them... he wasn't bad looking... and he was really funny. I would literally stalk him... go and do things just to see his face. That was my first and last (at least for now) crush I ever had.

hahaha i stalk a lot. i am known to stalk. just wait until i can drive.. :devil:

i had a crush for about 4 weeks, i went out with her for 7 months, now i realize how great single life is, :rofl: lol.


sal you are a stalker, rofl, still wanna see that picture of me from when i was on tv? lol. i have yet to do that, maybe tomorrow if i remember. lolz.

NOTHING. I read teen magazines and it seems like everybody is supposed to be flirting and getting asked out. Never happened to me. *Sigh* Sweet sixteen and never been kissed... Excuse me while I go ponder the point of my existence.

im 16 and i've never been kissed either. im not afraid to admit it, i just turned 16 and i have the rest of my life. i dont really care much about getting a boyfriend as everyone else does coz they're all a pain anyways, they're only nice and sweet in the beginning.

one of my good friends just got her 1st boyfriend last yr and she hasn't talked to me (or any of her other friends) since. we used to always write notes to each other coz we never had any of the same classes together and the day she got her bf she gave me a a note saying "omg, i got a boyfriend!" and i wrote her back, and she never wrote me, and that seemed really weird coz she always writes back. she would stop hanging out w/ me or anyone else, and you can always see them together in the halls and she would even ignore me.

on the day of her birthday she had a party and invited me to it. i really didnt wanna go but my best friend talked me into it. i only went coz of the cake anyways lol :D. well, we were all there and some of her relatives were there too, and after we sang her happy birthday and they cut the cake, we all went outside to play w/ water balloons and i noticed she wasnt outside w/ us. she had left everyone (her guests and her family members) outside and went inside to play video games w/ her boyfriend. i was really surprised when she actually invited me to her party but i definitly wasnt surprised when she had left everyone outside and went inside to be w/ her boyfriend.

this yr i noticed she wasnt in school n 1 of my friends told me that her bf had changed schools and she went w/ him.

i really hate ppl like that! so from now on, ive decided not to be her friend anymore. altho, i do wonder whats ganna happen to her if her relationship tanks and she ends up being alone and w/ no friends. she cant come to me coz i wont talk to her.

i always go by the motto and i dont do things to people that i wouldnt want done to me.

I'm 16, and I've never had a boyfriend. And I don't care, either. As long as I have friends, I'm okay.

its good to know im not alone. some ppl u talk to who've had boyfriends since they were little and u tell them u've never had a boyfriend and they'll look at you all surprised like "WHAT!!!! you've never had a BOYFRIEND! OMG!!". those are the wannabe know-it-alls.

just wait until i can drive.. :devil:

LOL... i dated a guy for SIX YEARS before i met my husband and when i got my license, i used to stalk him to make sure he wasn't doing stuff he wasn't supposed to be doing... i put so many miles on my car being a psycho girlfriend and following him and crap like that... and because of said boyfriend....


...her relationship tanks and she ends up being alone and w/ no friends...

i was in that same boat cause i would have rather hung out with the jerk or stalk him than hang out with my friends... =(

i had a crush for about 4 weeks, i went out with her for 7 months, now i realize how great single life is, :rofl: lol.


sal you are a stalker, rofl, still wanna see that picture of me from when i was on tv? lol. i have yet to do that, maybe tomorrow if i remember. lolz.
haha sure, anything that aids my stalker-ness is fine by me :P

my stalking was bad... he was a grade older than I and I found out what all of his periods were and what rooms they were in and somehow I found his cell phone number... no clue how I did that... I also found his AIM screen name... which I also stalked him with :P

Lol... my friend said that whenever she gets on AIM, this guy from school does too. But she hardly knows him. It's kind of funny.

my stalking was bad... he was a grade older than I and I found out what all of his periods were and what rooms they were in and somehow I found his cell phone number... no clue how I did that... I also found his AIM screen name... which I also stalked him with :P
my stalkee was a year older too! except i also knew where he lived, his parents names, what cars they drived, and i knew his little brother.. aww his brother is so cute [little boy cute]. he's a year younger than me and he was in jazz band with me. not just me of course :P he played drums and i played guitar. we made beautiful music together. HAA jk no beautiful music :P

i consider myself a stalker, sort of, its funny i get along with everyone in band, and theres so many different groups that could never be great friends themselves but i can go back and forth between groups yadda yadda yadda...ok that was kind of offtopic except not-err...ya...lolol

y'know, there is a term for people who don't generally feel attracted to anyone. It's called a^^^ual. If you look it up on google, the first site there gives a nice description... though with most people it just takes a little time, so I wouldn't worry abput it if you're still in your early teens ^^;

I know I don't have a crush on anyone at least

i know what you mean zepp... i was a band geek myself in highschool and it is so weird how everyone becomes one regardless of their "label" when they are in band... but it is also messed up how like the quarterback or whatever can like act like your best friend in band but then outside of band you are like "hey" and they give you this look like "who the heck are you?"

Person: Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Nobody
Person: seriously. Who do you have a crush on?
Me: Seriously. Nobody
Person: You're kidding me right?
Me: No. I don't have a crush on anyone.
Person: (weird look)

Is it that hard to believe that I don't have an attraction to anyone? Sheesh. I've gotten that from so many people, it's not even funny.
I guess you have to have a crush on someone to be normal. :rolleyes:


I don't see what's so not normal with not having a crush on anyone. I know lots of peolple who doesn't have a crush on anyone.

How about crushing on a fictatious character, is that abnormal too? Because I do, but I don't care, bwahahaha!!

*Sigh* Sweet sixteen and never been kissed... Excuse me while I go ponder the point of my existence.

This will probably seem weird to most of you...but I have decided not to have my first kiss until I get married :D It'll make it so much more romantic. :heart:

This will probably seem weird to most of you...but I have decided not to have my first kiss until I get married :D It'll make it so much more romantic. :heart:

It doesn't seem weird to me. :)
A lot of people I know, or at least have heard about, are the same way.

I don't think I could wait that long for a kiss though... but who knows? :P

yea my cousin is always like "who do you like? who do you like?" to me.. and it is annoying.. and i say nobody and she says "there has to be somebody!".. and no one likes telling any secret to her cuz it spreads fast!! evn if she doesnt tell anyone.. she says"oh my god! oh my god!" the whole day.. and if you did tell her who you like but it wasnt someone she knows shell say.. theres got to be someone in this school.. it is soo annoying.. hehe

My sister likes to tease me by insisting that I'm dating my male friends or something. :rolleyes: She thinks that because I'm sixteen, I MUST be dating someone...pathetic.

Next time anyone asks you that, just say, well yeh, Jerry Springers kinda cute I guess, and have you seen President Bush lately? Hottness!