grrrr i just need to get this out somewhere an none of my friends are online.. ok after 6 months of telling me how much she loves me and stuff, my ex girlfriend all of a sudden just dumps me for another guy? so when i found out i was mad right, and i said "ok, whatever when that doesnt work...dont come running back to me." That was on sunday, and so this morning i get this email

"hey nick. I don't understand how you could have been such a jerk to me. i know you were upset but why? i mean i am happy and i have liked aaron since last year at the first car wash.i am sorry that i hurt you and everything.something bad happened to me and i don't want you to have the consequence? that there might be. right now i don't even want to think about you, you made me so mad yesterday that i cried. you know who you reminded me of yesterday you reminded me of your step dad. that is another reason...but whatever i don't care if you respond to this or not."

now was i being a jerk by saying what i did? why am i being made out to be a bad guy....i never did anything to hurt her, i treated her well. she promised not to hurt me and she broke that promise. but do you guys think i was in the right for telling her that?? i guess i'm saying if you were in my shoes, would you do what i did or somethin different?

I think you have the right....I don't know why she got that upset for, because she's the one who dumped you. What did she expect? Geez. :rolleyes:

If I was you I'd probably have said the same thing you did. I don't see why she's so upset by that. So I agree with Sheila. ;)

And why did she send that to you if she didn't want to think about you? That bit's a little dumb if you ask me... :rolleyes:

I agree with Sheila there. She really had no legitimate reason to be that upset.
You really have to wonder about people. :rolleyes:

I certainly would not have got that upset over it. Of course, I would never dump a guy for another one either... ::thinks horrible thoughts about people who do that crap to other people:: As you can tell, I don't hold much regard for those kind of people. Either way, she had no right to have gotten upset.

I must admit, I had to laugh at the phrase:

i know you were upset but why?

I know it's not funny, but still, I wonder why... :confused:

i think it's funny too because i mean what did she expect me to do?? be like ok that's fine have fun and when you're done i'll be waiting.....i would never have done that to her....theres also one more thing i forgot to add, i think it was last weekend she said she didn't like him...

Oh yes, that makes perfect sense! :rolleyes: Sounds like you have a really screwed up chick for an ex. Or at least a liar...::thinks more evil thoughts about liars::

psytek, might I ask your girlfriend's age? The reason I ask is because younger girls don't seem to have such important values in a relationship that older girls do.

psytek, might I ask your girlfriend's age? The reason I ask is because younger girls don't seem to have such important values in a relationship that older girls do.

i'm gonna be 16 next month and she turned 16 last month

Oh..well in that case, no offense, but that was quite childish of her. She should at least give you a good reason for saying all of that. I'm 16 and 3 months, and I would never treat a guy like that.

yeah well that kinda stuff always happens to me with girls that i go out with i get attached and stuff then they do somethin like that, now cause of that i dunno that i want another girlfriend for awhile. i wouldnt have done it to her even if i did like the girl for a year before she asked me out, so why does it have to happen to me

:(I'm sorry. I know what it's like to be hurt by someone. A helpful hint though, try to fill up all of your free time, so you don't think about it as much.

wow she's very.. immature. you have nothing to worry about, i don't think you did anything wrong. she dumped you, so, as Sheila & pom & weird girl & everyone else said, she has no reason to "freak out" :lol:

i have been, went to the water park yesterday and met a girl there and talked to her, we're goin again on friday so yeah i'm workin at it

i have been, went to the water park yesterday and met a girl there and talked to her, we're goin again on friday so yeah i'm workin at it
just make sure she's not crazy ;) :lol:

psytek, might I ask your girlfriend's age? The reason I ask is because younger girls don't seem to have such important values in a relationship that older girls do.
Hey, that's not always true! I'm only 14 and I would never do that to someone, and never would've in the past either.

Hey, that's not always true! I'm only 14 and I would never do that to someone, and never would've in the past either.
I believe you misunderstood my implication. I meant that some girls mature mentally faster then others, and they realize that there are more imortant things in a relationship rather then a cute boy. Things such as personality, love, emotions, and many others.

I'm still at that stage where I think boys are made of frogs and snails and puppy dog tails. :P Just kidding.
Seriously, I've never had a real crush on anyone, and probably won't have a boyfriend till I'm 20. I like the intellectual type you see. ;)
But I would never dump a guy for another one.

^Yes, intelligence is a must when it comes to guys:D Don't worry, I'm the same way, It's difficult to find a smart guy at my school :P

My ex broke up with me for another girl in Feb., and he's been blaming me for it ever since :roll: Now I'm not trying to be with anyone for a while. Since next year's my senior year, I think I'll focus on school instead. Like you claim, I got attached and he ended up the way we did. HE went to me, HE asked me out, HE called me everyday, and then he suddenly changed his tune on the tenth day. I should have known something was up when he accused me of checking out other guys when we were hanging out at school in the mornings... Jerk. :lol:

Anyway, I understand how you feel... Except the part about the water park, lol.

naw i dont think u did anything wrong. You were hurt by what she did and maybe u should tell her that.