How do you make a button/link Exchange?

I don't really understand what you're asking. A link extange is when two sites put each other's links on their site. To do that, just e-mail the webmaster of a site and ask if they'll put your link up.

I don't know how to make buttons.

like the plugboard at starlets site? she has a tutorial there for it...

http://www.``````````````/plugboardtut.php

thanks