okay, I went to this site and found a tutorial on cutting the edges of the borders but I don't understand it. The tutorial is right here (http://www.slashmysoul.org/-content/tutorials/tutorials/tornborder.html). Could someone please explain it more clearly to me please? thanks :)

I tried out the tutorial, and basically you just take the lasso tool and go around the borders of your graphic, but don't follow the border exactly, make it look kinda wavy. When you finish going one round around the graphic, the lasso tool will select the graphic inside the lines you drew, and you have to right-click and choose "select inverse" before you press delete, or instead of deleting the border you don't want, you'll end up deleting the graphic itself. Once you've done that, you have to right-click and choose "select inverse" again, then go to Edit > Stroke and give your graphic a border. But that's just for me because I don't have the same edition of Photoshop

Hope that helped!

WOW!! It worked!! Thank you sooo much! :)