Is there a way to preload Midis so that when people with slow internet view my page the midi starts when it is supposed to not when the whole page is loaded...

I don't think so... I mean I've never seen anything that let's you preload midi's, but I'll keep an eye out if you want.

Thanks :)

I think it matters where you place the code for the midi in your html, if its closer to the top it will start loading sooner.

No it's still the same.. i put the code right at the very top and the site loads before the midi :(

what format is the song in?

What do you mean what format?